At the time, I thought that if I could just become better at what I did in my career, I would get results, which would allow me to feel better and these problems would fall away.
So I started my journey by finding free resources and training online, which admittedly did help a little bit.
Then I spent $6,000 on a course to improve my skills as a music producer (it was part of what I was doing at the time) and it helped more, but I was still coming up against the same problems.
It wasn’t until I finally started changing my mindset, and focusing on my own development that I saw some real results coming through.
Because even though I was improving my skills at a rapid rate, I still ended up on this hamster wheel between failure and success because I knew what to do, yet my self-talk was so destructive, critical and I was always plagued by fear and doubt.
For years, I was led to believe that I needed to just keep keep learning more. Eventually I would feel confident and start to believe in my ability and my life would then change!
But then when I figured out that I didn’t need to ‘have it all figured out’ or ‘perfect’, and even when I learned that fear was necessary and doubt was just poor management of my mind, I was finally able to breakthrough what had been holding me back for years!
The real problem here was the experts and courses that show you strategies WHAT to do, but they don’t even touch on what’s going on inside your head or what’s preventing you from actually doing the work in the first place! At the time, I felt like THEY were the ones keeping me from moving forward!
It was only once I developed an approach to breakthrough these destructive habits, transform doubt into self-belief and fear into confidence, I started to get some serious results!
I used what I discovered to be able to: